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Their opinion doesn’t define you, here’s why

We say opinions are like assholes… everyone has one but they think each others stink. Well, what to do when it’s far too common for people to give their unsolicited opinion and when it affects your ability to make choices or live the life you really want to live because you care too much about others’ opinion? This edition of That’s BS newsletter gives strategies to help you block out the external noise, care less about others’ opinions and go on with what you are meant to be or do. Read on for more.

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My rationale for my irrational thinking

We all have irrational thoughts that creep into our mind at the worst possible time but what happens if you think your irrational thoughts are actually serving a real purpose and are based on solid foundations? AKA what I call rationalising irrational thinking. This edition of That’s BS newsletter explains why irrational thoughts are complete BS and how to discern a regular thought from an irrational one. Then what to do about them. Read on for more.

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7 Stress less tips to live happier

‘Tis the season to be stressed AF… I mean… Jolly! December is about to hammer you with the EOY/Christmas festivities stress. So, could you do with less stress in your life to start the new year right? Read on for my 7 stress less tips to live a happier life (and stress less) in 2022. 1️⃣Go for stress management, not stress relief. Find out what the others are.

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Is finding the time for what matters a struggle?

Understanding the principles of time management through a course or a book is useful but if you ask me, you would be wasting your money and your time (!) because the true synonym of time management is… wait for it… PRIORITIES! And that starts with you and the type of strategy applied to what you have going on. It’s about clarity, schedule and commitment. Read on for more.

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4 tips from a life coach on how to choose a life coach

Here are my 4 tips on HOW TO choose a life coach (from an experienced life coach). There are many different types of life coaches out there and who you turn to will depend on what you're looking to achieve and the coach's methodology. #1 It's about you! Keep reading to find out what the others are.

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Playing the victim card is BS!

Certain behaviour patterns are associated with the ‘victim mentality’. The professional victim has a strong tendency to negativity at signs of any friction and challenge in their life. Self-sabotage is a huge ongoing habit. Sadly, playing the victim card is often just driven by a need for validation or sympathy.

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Procrastination: I can’t even think about that right now

Procrastination has a cost and it’s not what you think it is - it’s you! When is it ever the right time to take massive action? Do you have "this will never work" objections running wild in your head? If you haven’t heard of the term "limiting beliefs" that’s exactly what those objections are and they are not your friend, they are holding you back. Read on to understand what to do about them.

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Hey there, I think you might be a narcissist

The feelings of self-importance or superiority, the need to be looking powerful, and a sense of entitlement to special treatment. All this sometimes coupled with difficulty empathising with other people’s needs and desires… You could be a narcissist and not know it. Here’s what you can do if you are showing the traits.

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Thrive, Survive or Crash-dive (Podcast)

In this podcast from The Mindset Mastery podcast series, Luke and host Rachel Tapscott discuss his journey from corporate roles to life coach and the lessons learnt along the way. The battles of stress and anxiety that many of us face along with plenty more about the stories we tell ourselves and why tiny powerful habits can be the game changer to a life that is feeling unfulfilled.

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Self-Esteem, Values and Healing Steps (Podcast)

In this talk from Diaries of a life coach podcast series, Luke and host Larisa Dalton discuss feelings of unworthiness, low self-esteem and self confidence. What it is to be growing each and every day in our own story of life facing our fears and doubts and why our worthiness is so important to hold onto….

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Redefining masculinity & creating a fulfilling legacy (Podcast)

In this podcast collaboration with Sarah Liberty from #FeministFridays, Luke and host Sarah have an unfiltered and insightful conversation about how Luke realised he needed to own his sh*t, reexamine his life's purpose and rethink what it meant to be a man. After walking away from a high flying corporate career, Luke's own journey led him to forge a new career working with people to create fulfilling legacies.

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Shoes on, nappy checked...no time for cuddle...we gotta hustle

My son who is 3, has changed so much in the last few weeks. He is a picture of Go Go GO, however he has become a little more stubborn, demanding and his emotions feel like they are sitting just below the surface ready to explode...and on another side, his need for “dadda cuddles” has been a constant. The constant Go has been replaced with the need for slow…

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Is your communication style, your problem?

Do you listen only because you are trying to figure out what to say next? Or do you listen seeking to understand the situation for what it is and make each encounter the best it can be? Good communication is about showing up and understanding. Is the way you communicate helping you or working against you? What if your communication style is YOUR problem?

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Are you flirting with the idea of change?

Are you flirting with the idea of achieving change but never actually doing it? This is a story and concept that fits painfully into the space between creating the goal or new year’s resolution and then letting go of the same idea (usually by early Feb), are you there yet?

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